Monday 11th December 2023

Our week began on Monday with St Bride’s, St Cuthbert’s and Morningside. We are now really into Christmas activities and the singing of Christmas songs! Exploring Christmas memories and traditions is interesting, with different people with different memories. Christmas impacts people in various ways both positive and negative. Each memory needs to be respected and handled with care. We must never take for granted the trust people place in us as they share their stories.

Tuesday brought Eagle Lodge, Seagrove, Quarries, and The Hive. The Hive is a part of the support that is given to those people who find themselves in the Royal Edinburgh Hospital. It is run by SAMH and offers support to people from a social model of support. We had never sung there before and didn’t know what to expect. It was certainly different but clear that those who were a part of the session took something from it. We also shared in our volunteer Christmas gathering and I was glad that I was able to be a part of it. We have wonderful volunteers who are doing so much beautiful support to those they work with. One volunteer enables a person to play piano duets, and another holds an accordion while the person she supports is enabled to play. These different ways of using music are amazing and ones that we at the Forget Me Notes project are very proud of.

We had wonderful news about funding for our Volunteer Project as we secured £15,000 from RS Macdonald for two years’ funding of the project. I expect you can imagine that news was met with great celebration, along with the realisation that people were putting their trust in us to deliver a positive project and we are committed to doing just that. If you are a member of the Co-op, then you can support Forget Me Notes. We have been nominated for a community award which means that if you nominate Forget Me Notes then any time you buy a Co-op product, we will receive a penny for every pound you spend. The award period lasts for a whole year so we can secure a substantial amount of money if you are able to support us.

Thursday and Friday saw us at Open Door, Saughton Park, Strachan House and Ocean Terminal. Ocean Terminal is a shopping centre here in Edinburgh, and around the centre there are several hubs that are in place to encourage reminiscence. Singing in the centre was about promoting The Forget Me Notes Project and the Living Memory Association, which was a privilege. Working together to provide experiences for those living with dementia is part of what we are about, both here to enable others, so working in partnership is amazing and we hope that we will have more chances to continue working together.

Have a great week!

Alan

Monday 4th December 2023

This week I have had the privilege of doing two review of services that we deliver to other providers. Reviewing the work of other people is a privilege that needs to be done with respect, understanding the context in which a service is being delivered. The comments shared with me by providers was so easy to listen to because they were so happy with the service that they have been given. It is testimony to the quality of the other facilitators who work with us. Why am I so pleased? Well, it is because for so long those living with dementia have been short-changed by the services given to them. The services generally to older people are so underfunded and the services to those with dementia are even more challenging. To be a part of turning services for people living with dementia into a quality that is deserved is my life’s work.

We delivered the first Christmas session this year when we did Together in Song at the Festival Theatre. It was a great afternoon. I know by the end of December I will be happy to put away the Christmas songs for another year but before I do, I am going to enjoy the celebration. This coming week we will be doing our usual Music Memory sessions along with Saughton Park. We will be at the Hive in the Royal Edinburgh Hospital and in Ocean Terminal at the Wee Hub, a memory centre in one of the indoor shopping centres in Edinburgh. It is a fun time, it is a time to sing and celebrate but we mustn’t ever forget that dementia is a whole year-round illness and it brings with it tensions and challenges each and every day. Being able to offer people a measure of relief and positivity through music is an honour.

The aims of The Forget Me Notes project to build community, challenge isolation and provide enhanced opportunities for communication are so relevant at Christmas. We have so many opportunities over the next month to carry that message as we build community, encourage participation, listen to stories, and be inspired.

Hope you have a great week.